Saturday, June 6, 2020

What Love actually is?

             
Here i am trying to come across A totally different, practical  perception of Love . What the love actually is and  Who to fall in love with??  
U Wii know very different prospective of Love. Yeah... and i am damn sure you will  merge with my point of view...let's Redifine meaning of Love 
As a child, everytime I used to go out anywhere, after a point of time, I used to want to go home. The place where I could be myself, Where I could be comfortable, lie down probably on the Sofa, Comfortably cuddle up under a warm blanket, switch on my television set and watch some absolutely random movies..... because that's what peace meant for me. No matter where I went, how much I enjoyed, a part of me longed for home.

As I grew up, I understand that home is not a place-  it's a feeling of safety, security, and hope. a feeling that no matter what you do, you can always come back to it, that there is a sense of peace you can look forward to even after a long, tiring day. More importantly that feeling can come even from a person. be it your family, your friend, or your partner.

              "AND THAT HOME IS LOVE"

A name can make you smile, blush, Emotional, weak and Happy.
Yes life is all about that one name, one priceless person, Whom you feel your Home.

They say love is like a river that drowns the tenderest souls, I say "love is the only hope one needs to fight for". They say love is an endless aching, I say love the only medicine for your soul.



Love is the most beautiful accident that one ever experiences.

This is an undeniable feeling that one can never turn a blind eye to it.

love is an obscuring Temptation which Seeps is unalarmingly and by the time you extrapolate your allurance about it.

It has already occupied a huge space in your life and altered a huge  part of your prospective about life.

There is always a piece of your lover in you and a piece of you in your lover.

But society has always been Harsh on true lovers. by the time true love seeps in, unknowingly trouble seeps in too. society is group persistently involved in in inflicting true lovers.


Songs and movies tend to glorify love but there are a few which show love as love it is in real world. One such song is a "Raakh- by Arijit singh" which tells us about all those  phases we go through in love.


Woh kehte hain ishq hadd Mein karo

Jo Ishq Kya Hai Na Jaane

Yeh Dil To Anpadh Dehati Sa hai

kya kuch likha hai kya Jane

bahar Se Dekha jinhone

andar Chale Kya Kya Jaanein


I always had a thing for a melancholic songs and Rakh is not just a song to me, it is an heartfelt emotion of heartache.

when for the very first time I heard this song, I was completely tongue tied, left completely shattered. I can never explain what  I exactly felt at that moment, but definitely I felt something very heavy. it was like there was something stuck in my throat. I feel the same every time I listen to this song.


Hum jal jayenge raakh bachegi

Ishq me ik na aag bachegi

Fir bhi inn seeli aankhon mein

Aakhiri lau tak aas bachegi

Love burns us, tears us apart by means society. Actually society tears love apart.

Love is ray of hope in a dark and gloomy love. We are never free to love anyone.

One most amazing thing about love is when two people hug long enough, their heartbeat sync

Out of the innumerable romantic songs, that are a part of my playlist. It took a notch ahead and made me realise that 

love is where happiness blooms.


"Muskurane ki wajah tum ho

Gunhunane ki wajah tum ho"

It made me fall in love with lyrics at the most accurate time when the buds of love was about to bloom in for me,

It made me believe that home isn't four walls but sometimes a person too !



Who to fall in love with?

Fall in love with someone who makes an effort that stretches far beyond poetic words or passive convenience. 
Fall in love with someone who genuinely fills  your life with Wonder, and foundation, and the kind of hope that spills out of you and into everything you do. 
Fall in love with someone who teaches you that love can be rediscovered, reimagined - transformed into something that is honest and gracious and so for you that it feels like it was  knit into your every cell before you even meet them. Fall in love with someone who make you want to be vulnerable, someone who show you that it's Ok to have faith in the heart of another, that is the courageous to try for something.

Just fall in love with someone who is your Home, your safe place, and your biggest adventure and never forget that you can also be this same person for yourself Too✨